[M4F] 43 #Seattle WA (Greater Seattle Area) Seeking that "checking my phone with a smirk" kind of connection

I’ve been attached for over two decades and married for most of that as well. She’s my best friend, but we’ve had a mismatched libido since day one. I’ve come to grips with the reality that we simply view intimacy and physical connection differently. While I have zero intention of changing my situation or blowing up my life, I’m also not ready to give up on living a fulfilled life. I crave feeling desired, and I want to give that exact same feeling to someone else.

I’m looking for a regular, ongoing physical fling where we can both escape reality for a bit. I want the anticipation, that feeling of picking up your phone hoping there’s a message waiting, knowing the chemistry is brewing on both sides. I want to bring passion, creativity, and desire back into the mix.

For the stats:

• I’m 43, 5'10", 170-175 lbs, in decent shape but also work a desk job so 'fit dad bod'?
• Shaved bald head and a well-trimmed salt & pepper beard.
• I prioritize discretion, stay safe/clean, and don't smoke.
• Mutual respect and consent are non-negotiable.

In the bedroom, I am highly attentive, giving, and open-minded. I love focusing heavily on a partner's pleasure and exploring what we’ve both been craving but haven't been able to ask for elsewhere. (Only seeking cis females)

If you’re in a similar boat and are looking for a clean, respectful partner to bring some genuine excitement back into your life, please DM! Let's find out what we've both been missing.