55+ communities are terrible and shouldn't exist

As the title says these communities are terrible. Filled with vultures and busybodies.

I'm not 55+ but I'm dealing with the passing of the relatives who lived in a 55+ community. This relative hasn't been passed long and I've gotten multiple requests to prioritize neighbor X or neighbor Ys friend in the sale. Like seriously what the actual fuck are you doing to a family still grieving. Like I get it you're in these communities, death is a far more common occurrence.

But goodness just because you and your friends are on death's door and you don't give a crap doesn't mean you should piss away your tact. It makes me think these communities shouldn't exist and these people either need to coexist with the rear if society or be in nursing homes.