Strange Question: Does Anyone Actually Want This?

34 M Southampton.
Looking to meet confident, dominant men who enjoy taking the lead in life and relationships, but without the sexual side of BDSM.
What appeals to me is the dynamic itself: guidance, leadership, accountability, trust, loyalty, and being useful to someone whose opinion I genuinely value. I enjoy doing practical things for people, whether that's helping out around the home, running errands, cooking, solving problems, or simply making someone's life easier.
I'm not looking for hookups, sessions, roleplay, or anything sexual. I'm interested in whether there are other people who enjoy this sort of real-world dynamic, where control, service, and respect exist as part of everyday life rather than the bedroom.
Interested in hearing from local people or learning about any groups or communities where this exists.

Posted Jun 4, 2026, 12:49 AM UTC

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