Where to find

I am a male 25 years old and I’ve been single for 4-5ish years now. When I say single I mean not even as much of a fling or any form of dating. But recently I’ve actually really noticed how much I do miss annoying that one person, miss the cuddles, the dates, the late night phone calls. I am shy at first and I’m also chicken shit to be able to walk up to a woman and just start talking never mind trying to flirt right off the bat. I have enjoyed my single life. But I’m ready for a change. I tried dating apps but I get bored with them at most after 2 weeks and decide to delete the profile. I enjoy going out to bars, I am big into demolition derby, I have my own job. Honestly I’m almost a walking green flag but it seems like no matter what I put in that bio the more i sounded like myself I never got any matches. Now by all means I am far from perfect and I’m sure most would see that. But also I’m not looking for someone perfect. I do have standards and by all means I will not lower them just to be in a relationship. So my questions is what would be the better options to find someone when you are an introvert? How do you try stay motivated on that pursuit of finding someone? What do you look for on a dating app? What makes someone stand out to you?