28 [M4F] IL, Crystal Lake, Looking my life partner who is kinky and loves to give oral

TLDR: Straight, 28 male, blond, 5'10", average to active build, bearded, introvert, passionate, inexperienced switch, far northwest suburbs/WI border area

Physically: 28m, short blond hair, trimmed beard/mustache, 5'10-11"ish, ~170lbs, average to active build, eyes vary often from pure blue to pure green or even green-brown, I've been told my style/outfits give Daniel Craig (007) vibes

What I am seeking

I'm looking for a kinky partner to explore more areas of sensuality and ideally grow to a long term life partner. Physically, I would like someone of a similar petite build like my own, beyond that I'm not set on any features.  I'm open to all levels of experience. Very intimate, I need someone who can match my energy or go beyond, a bit of neediness would honestly be a pro. Ideally you're also a switch but I'm open to subs or gentle femdoms

Dealbreakers for partners: Anti-vaxers, Mango-Mussolini supporters, sti/std's

Dynamic/kinks:

I'm a switch but tend to stay towards the gentle side of both, being focused more on a firm nurturing dominance with clear consent and respect. While I haven't explored much yet, these interest me and I think I would enjoy (none are necessarily required).

Praise, teasing, light bondage, orgasm control/edging/denial, light humiliation/degradation, body writing, dirty talk, service/tasks/joi, outfit control, spitplay, and cuckquean/ffm threesome, cumplay, aftercare, oral/foreplay/non intercourse focused

Hard limits: Severe pain/blood, pegging, scat

If something else interests you, feel free to inquire, I'm fairly open minded.

Location: Far Northwest Suburbs/WI border area (open to some travel but mostly under 45min)

18+ for 18+ Only