M4M - FREEHOLD - 41m Looking for a longterm fwb I can start slowly with giving a hj develop to more over time. No recip

Mwm would like to start with giving a hj the first few times. Am interested in more, but need to develop trust. I am married and am looking for something regular, not a one time thing. Please be somewhat local, give or take 20 minutes

I go to the gym weeknights and sometimes weekends. That's usually the best time for me to meet. Weeknights would be around 8:30-9pmish. I can come to you or do car fun, can't host.

Stats - 6 ft tall. 255 pounds, built like a lineman, very strong. Have pics to share. Lmk if you're interested.