29M and 25F. Living together but no sex life.

29M and 25F. We met organically 2 years ago in the same company. Both were in a relationship at that time. She had an abusive ex and I had long distance. We really liked each other’s vibe but never crossed boundaries. Then one day she came to my home, I had broken up due to issues and she was committed. She teased me sexually but nothing happened.

Then on a work trip in November 2024 we did it. She was on a break with her boyfriend. In January last year she broke up with her bf. And then me and her started getting physical. She used to smoke cigarettes. One day in August she stopped and started having sexual withdrawal.

She also got more spiritual and started doing more religious activities like attending church meetings and all.

I asked her what’s the matter with our sex life she said if i talk to her mom about us she will be okay. I went to her house and talked to her mom about getting married. Somehow i convinced her. She is Cristian, i am Hindu. Now when I initiated intimacy she said she has given herself to wrong people and this time she wants to save it for her husband. So she is being careful. This does not sit well with me.

We’re currently in a live in but I’m dry since August last year. She’s good but I’m not happy sexually. We have just became room mates at this point. I don’t know what to do. Anything related to sex becomes a big topic, she starts crying because it has affected her in the past, and it makes things difficult.

I cannot sustain this. Please advice.