M4F My views and Observation and Search for An F who's kinky, educated and fun.
I’ve been on this subreddit and a few other kink subs for about a week or two now, and I need to say this a lot of people here don’t really understand what kinks are.
Kinks are not just different types of sex. They are more like spices you add to it. There is a difference between basic interaction and actually exploring desires with awareness communication and nuance.
Another thing I have noticed is the overwhelming amount of catfishing and sellers It is honestly frustrating Most accounts claiming to be women are not even genuine and the rest are often selling. No hate to them they are just supplying but it says something about the space when everything turns transactional.
Because of this actual women hesitate to post and the imbalance just keeps getting worse.The ratio is off the vibe is off and meaningful conversations are rare.
So here is me trying something different I am looking for a F who:
1.) Knows how to hold a conversation
2.) Has some understanding of kinks beyond surface level
3.) Enjoys a natural flow where things evolve instead of feeling forced
4.) Does not treat this like a marketplace
About me 25M based in Gurgaon Curious respectful and looking to explore with the right energy
If this resonates with you feel free to DM
TLDR Most people here do not understand kinks too many fake and selling accounts Looking for someone genuine who can hold a convo and explore things naturally
Posted Jun 4, 2026, 12:56 AM UTC · locked