I am a dude who has never dated at 28 yr old and dont have any options whatsoever. What are some steps that I can use tomorrow to show interest in women?
So I am an unique case in the sense that women really havent been part of my life since college really. I dont know how it happen, but I do well around men and some how the universe has always surrounded me with men.
For example, I am in med school, and I am with nothing but men on my rotation. Even within my male friend group, there are no women. And I know 10 guys who I hang with. The irony is that all of them are either married or going to get married soon.
None of their women know single friends. And I believe them given I know a lot of their women and they are introverted home bodies. Or their friends are already married.
Then jumping into med school. A lot of women are already coupled up. A lot of them came in with bfs or found them very quickly. Its not uncommon to see a lot of women with rings on their fingers.
This is what I mean that the universe chose me to stay single lol. It has been very rare in my life for women to just be single or that cool girl that you met in a club. Serendipity is not on my side!
So what are some actionable steps to take so women even though I want them?
Because its rare for a woman to ever flirt with me. And to be honest, I probably have developed a very aromantic personality at this point so women probably dont even see me as a man. Just a robot.
Lastly, where can I go to meet more women anyways to practice any skills. I am in med school so I literally have no time to do hobbies or clubs. All I have is a Friday/Saturday night
But what are cues that shows interest?
Posted Jun 4, 2026, 12:57 AM UTC