How’s the fl divorce process

We have 2 children, multiple pets, a home, and vehicle. I have been a stay at home mom, I haven’t worked in a long time, and I’m applying for jobs currently but I’m scared because it’s all minimum wage ones. We’ve been together 21 years, married 7. He said he would let me have the house, and if I were to move we’d split the equity. I agreed.

I told him we were separated 3 weeks ago, he is going back and forth a lot with hot and cold energy. Refusing to let me move on, and refusing to acknowledge that I am ending the marriage. It is very difficult to navigate right now emotionally. Like where was this energy when I was begging for it? But w/e.

I would like to not have to fight in court about much. I don’t want much. I hope he doesn’t want much. He won’t communicate anymore so not going to get any idea until it happens. Idk. I feel flat, and numb a bit and just tired. So very very soul deep tired from surviving alone for so long and begging so hard.