I'm genderfluid and want to be called he/him sometimes.

Okay so. I am biologically female, as I went through middle and highschool I really struggled with gender identity until I was able to realize I am genderfluid.

Most of the time I sit in the female side of that genderfluidness. But other times (often days at a time) I sit in that male section. I've been telling myself its fine that my friends continue to call me she/her no matter what I'm feeling because thats what they've always called me, but I'm starting to wish they called me he/him when I am feeling masculine.

Disclaimer I do mention to them when I am on the other side of the spectrum, I just don't know how to go about asking them to use he/him pronouns for me without seeming overbearing or unreasonable.

Any advice is appreciated 🙏

Posted Jun 4, 2026, 1:04 AM UTC

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