gender help

hey guys. happy pride month. i really could use some advice on how to label myself. i was born a female but growing up i felt like i never really fit in with the girls but i never fit in with the boys either. i don’t mind they/them pronouns or he/him but somedays i dont mind she/her and other says id perfer if someone didnt use she/her. its very confusing for me because i feel connected to womanhood but at the same time i don’t know if i really view myself as a woman. im all over the place and its so hard for me 😭 i like the idea of he/him pronouns more than she/her but im not sure if i would become transgender. im obviously very feminine looking and i would like to change some of that but with my preference changing a lot, i dont want to make that mistake of transitioning. is that non binary or is there a different label that’s a bit more fitting?