I 26f want to know how i can get the same energy i give in the bedroom with 26m bf?

First off I should say, me and him 26m were both virgins when we first had sex. The first night we had sex I gave him oral. I've given him hand jobs. When we have sex, he always finishes. I have never received oral. He fingered me once for 20 seconds then got grossed out and stopped. At first I gave some grace because we were both new to sex but I feel like I have done way more for him than he has me.

I've never even finished with him because to be honest im not sure he cares about making me finish. We started being intimate in March of this year and I feel like he hasn't really ever focused on MY pleasure. Im conflicted because im in love with him and he's amazing in every other aspect but this. I feel like it should be obvious to him that he should want to try to make me come. He always says "one day" he'll make me come or "one day" he'll eat me out but that day never happens. I also dont want to pressure him into sex acts he doesn't enjoy but it feels so unfair right now. Any advice?