Here we go again

Husband has twice now threatened to cancel my daughter's ticket to china n today he said this morning that he was going to cancel her ticket n he'll go on his own which didn't go well with my daughter.

They were suposed to go with his brother n nephew on a trip after his hometown to Shanghai Disney n then two other places. But now when she wanted breakfast n I had to make pancakes n he got mad at her for not getting ready n just going to school right away.

It was just ridiculous that he yelled at her n i get it she didn't need to do that before I had tried to get her up cleaned, dressed, off to school.

Now he's not canceled anything that Ik of yet but am aware he could n I think that threat of taking the trip away from her this summer n going on his own without her will possibly result her to hate him n might in some odd way get her to agree to move onto Vancouver Island so we can be closer to my family.

Thing is to cancel her ticket when he had the idea of doing this trip getting her all excited for it n taking it away smh. I did tell her she didn't need to behave that way n it wasn't necessary for her to do that plus I had said he didn't need to go n threaten to cancel her ticket n go alone so that she'd never get a chance to go n see china.

Its his way to have control n make her behave but when she's upset n has a explosion like this morning or something over her hair or mentally he gets mad n doesn't think its a reason to not go off to school its like he feels she isn't allowed to stay home at all because she has no choice but to go n be at school.

But honestly i do want her there but if its a day that I can see she does need a mental health day or she's sick then she stays home n I can get her to do any of her assignments that are outstanding n get them handed in to her teacher. I did happen luckily to have her do just that n she did them without questioning me or putting it off.