Post-vasectomy, still haven't had sex in a year

I guess this is a general discussion / rant. I've been HS as long as ai can remember, so it's been my entire life. I was never popular with the women in my life, so I didn't lose my true virginity until I was 20. I got married and had a couple years of almost constant sex. But the last couple years, it just hasn't been happening. I was asked to get a vasectomy to help with improving our sex life, but now that I have been snipped and confirmed sterile, the sex never picked back up. It's been a year since I have been inside of someone and I'm starting to forget how it feels. Even porn is lackluster most of the time and I absolutely NEED human interaction to get off while sexting. Is this normal for other people? My inbox is open if anyone wants to have longer chats about these feelings.