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29 [M4F] #Online #Canada - My Real Thoughts & Seeking of a Real Connection ❤️

M4F Canada / Online

I think I'm about ready to give up on these posts. I think it just makes me feel lonelier and sadder not getting replies, and they just kind of feel like I am wasting my time a little bit. I think this method of using R4R or apps to date might just be too unnatural, and maybe brings in the wrong people, I'm not really sure.

That being said, I am going to try one more time, because I am taking a new approach and just saying my real thoughts out loud without selling anything. For me, I think I am a kind, caring, patient person that falls for people really deeply and quickly. I've recently gotten out of an 8 year long relationship about 6 months ago, and I think I am ready to try dating again. While I still enjoy homebody activities like gaming, watching shows/anime, reading; I've been going through a mini transformation lately where I spend a lot of my time hiking, cycling, attuning with nature, and climbing. I am someone that likes to face my fears, even if it's really hard to do sometimes.

I don't have that many preferences for a partner. I just want someone that is interested in what I have to say sometimes, and can have a conversation without multitasking, the same way that I would do for you. I want us both to feel heard, empowered, and comfortable. I want us both to feel like we are loved and cared for even when we're doing our own thing.

Don't bother messaging if you're just going to say hi, or ask me for a photo immediately, or whatnot because I wont respond. Tell me your favorite color if you read this. I am looking for connection, and I want it to feel as natural as it can :)

I have so much more to say, but I'll leave that for later, message me and we can talk more <3

Posted Jun 5, 2026, 4:49 AM UTC · locked

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