Clarity on who this sub is for

I commented on a post here earlier just trying to encourage the OP, but I don’t think it landed well at all because they basically questioned why I’m even in this sub. For context, I’m a Black AuDHD woman who has dealt with some really extreme misogynoir, so I joined this space thinking I could share my experiences, find people who relate, and offer support. Did I totally miss something here? 😭