Would you, as an INTP, find this overwhelming?

I'm an INFJ with questions about love

hi there. i hope you’re doing well tonight.

so, i am trying to temper myself. i feel, generally, fairly emotional when it comes to him and i find myself often wanting to send him messages late at night. more often than not, i try not to do it — and i try not to send more than one at a time. he has stated he doesn’t mind since he has his phone on silent at night — but even still, i imagine there would be an amount of pressure to wake up to numerous messages waxing lyrical about yourself.

so, my question:

  1. would you find yourself overwhelmed by messages left overnight with compliments or praise?

if the answer is yes, can you elaborate as to why and what would be a better way to express these things?

if the answer is no, can you elaborate as to why?

Posted Jun 5, 2026, 4:52 AM UTC

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