I’m a Virgo … tell me if I’m wrong in this situation since everybody says we think we’re always right

So I met this capricorn man while I was out, he came right up to me and started talking to me. He was talking like we known each other forever and usually I hate how dudes approach me but he was smooth… so I asked him what his sign was and that’s when he told me he was a Capricorn. he said whats yours? I said a Virgo. and he was like let me guess your birthday… I’m like yeah okay how are you going to guess that? long story short this man guessed my birthday! so he was like you have to give me your number now and I did lol …

we started texting consistently but like hours apart and he planned a date for us.

I work two jobs and I’m in school, so we had to hang out late this day.

the day of the date, he confirmed with me I said yes I would still be coming and I even communicated that I would be running late ( due to the timing of me getting off work )

he offered to pick me up from my house, but I declined because it was our first time hanging out and I just feel more comfortable meeting up with him for the first time

I showed up, we talked like we been kowing each other, he opened up to me and I opened up to him. It was a really great date. He didn’t pressure me made me feel uncomfortable saying anything sexual nothing. It was genuinely a great date for me. I even stayed out late for him, and went where he wanted to go. He thanked me for coming out and said I looked nice. He told me next time we going to one of my spots. I said okay.

Again, even after our first date… the communication was consistent just spaced out… cool.

So I finally got time to plan our second date. I wanted to do this to show that Im fair and I want to give the same energy he take me. I asked him what he like, what he like to eat etc, so I planned our date based off of that like he did me.

I made a creative flyer with three optional dates for him to choose from just in case he was busy and he chose one. He commented on my flyer and I told him I was being creative. No response

This is where things turn.

For 5 days I didn’t hear from him, i’m thinking because he’s busy and I’m also busy so it didn’t bother me at all and I know some people need a break. So I text him the night before our date and sent him the address and told him hey if you’re still good, here’s the address.

he responded the morning of and said okay cool I’m going to a graduation this evening but I should be good ima let you know if some to ing change..

I didn’t respond.. let me explain WHY.

- My intuition told me that he was going to flake

- Why are you telling me this the day of when you had FIVE DAYS to tell me, but instead I just didn’t hear from you.

So 3.5 hours before the reservation, he texts and says he can’t make it tonight and says don’t hate me.

I didn't respond … let me explain WHY.
- I was disappointed and hurt

- I showed up for him, so he was suppose to show up for me and not wait until the last minute to flake

- I made time for this date with my hectic schedule

- He already hadn’t spoken to me in five days, and since he wasn’t coming to there was no reason to respond

I still went to dinner, all the effort I was gonna put into us. I put into me and I really enjoyed myself.

The next day, he text me again and said that he was sorry about yesterday. He should’ve said something earlier. And then said I owe you.

I didn’t respond.

I just liked his text the next day and I only liked the one where he said he should’ve said something earlier.

We haven’t spoken since

Who was in the wrong and did I handle this the wrong or right way?

Logical answers only

SN : In my mind…I feel like since I showed up for him with all that I have going on, he should’ve showed up for me even if it was 15 minutes just to reciprocate the energy I gave him or said I'm going to miss dinner but I can meet you after or SOMETHING.