Am I (F 25) asking my husband (M 27) for too much??

What is the fine line with respect vs asking for too much. Is it disrespectful to have your husband come at you telling you to “quit bitching” after complaining to him about something?!? I hate when he uses that term against me and i’ve communicated that to him plenty of times. His excuse is always that he’s not actually calling me a “bitch”. and that “i’m too sensitive” But i don’t know .. i just know i wouldn’t want our daughter to be called out like that by her person. there’s other ways to communicate.