Had two miscarriages and now anxious to try again

Hi everyone, I’ve been a part of this group for a while but this is my first post. This time last year I had my first miscarriage at around 6 weeks. Miscarriage was obvious and over in a weekend without much pain or trauma. I then got pregnant again (September 2025) but miscarried at 8 weeks. The second miscarriage was harder as it wasn’t as obvious (I thought the bleeding was spotting - it was very on and off). Hcg levels and ultrasound confirmed miscarriage. Tried miso (twice) to no avail and ended up having a D&C. I handled all of this well at the time but have been quite upset about it in the last few months (it hits me suddenly!). I’m now feeling really anxious about trying again. Has anyone else been in the same situation? Can anyone recommend some concrete steps I can take to settle my nerves? I’m in the US but I’m from Europe which has made the whole experience less familiar. Have reasonably good medical coverage so could go for some tests before trying again? Thanks community 🌸