Toddler Becomes Big Sister

Does anyone else not think two years is the perfect age gap? I think 3 or 4 years would have been better. I felt that in my bones when we started trying for a second but I am an elder mom and didn’t want too wait too long. I love my baby but I feel like they are both being robbed of mom time and I feel like I am being robbed of time with them when they need me most during these most precious years. My two year old is an emotional rollercoaster - and I think if it was just her it would not be so severe and also wondering if terrible twos are really just terrible because it’s when moms commonly have the second ha