32w and struggling with getting it together

Okay so i’m 22 and currently 32w with my first baby, my due date is Aug. 4th and i am STRESSING about everything i still need to do. The problem is I don’t really know exactly WHAT i need to be doing, her nursery is coming along fine, hospital bag is in the starting stages of packed, and we have at least some of what we need for her.

What i’m really struggling with is not knowing if I’m supposed to be doing more and how to start it. Idk if it’s partially due to my adhd and autism that i’m struggling SO much. I don’t have a pediatrician for her yet, haven’t toured the hospital, and I don’t have a birth plan past: take the drugs, don’t die, have baby!

My husband has been very supportive of the mental side of it all but he’s saying i shouldn’t worry and everything will be fine. Love him to death but not very helpful yknow?

Did/does anyone else feel this way?? How did you get out of the rut and kick shit into gear bc this lady is STRUGGLING 😩🫠