56 [M4F] #Iowa #Wisconsin #Illinois discreet married male looking for long term connection.

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Mature married professional man in a dead bedroom who feels like a passenger in life. Seeking one very special woman in a similar situation who is also missing the passion and excitement of a new relationship.

You should be HWP, 40+, confident, discreet, within a reasonable driving distance from north eastern Iowa and open for a genuine connection.

I’m a 56 married male 6’0”, 205, athletic build, HWP, DDF, non smoker, social drinker. Overall just a good above average Midwestern gentleman looking for my girl next door type who might be a little mischievous.

Honesty is very important for this to work out. I know all of us on here hiding a large secret but I ask for honesty between us. I am not here to play games or bring more drama into our lives. Emotions can get intense, so I promise to be open and honest, hopefully you can to.

I also love texts during the day and hopefully you do too. I know we have lives to live but making time for each other is very important and a requirement for me.

I'm not looking for perfect, but be honest, kind, and real. Please put the state you live in your response, so i know you have at least read my post and are real.

DMs open, what are you waiting for?

*notabot

Posted Jun 6, 2026, 9:30 PM UTC

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