[TOMT](meme) iconic YouTube video that has guy ignoring woman right next to him

I know this is a famous meme, not a niche video. If not internationally, it's a brazilian meme, but I think it's an international meme.

Basically it's a guy, I think I'm pretty sure it's a "focused gamer" in a computer, not looking at the woman right next to him as if she wasn't even there. If I remember right, this woman is having sex with somebody else (not explicit, of course) and moaning, but there is usually an inserted music.

I tried all the prompts I could think of, I couldn't find this video.