25 [M4F] #Sweden/Online - Soft loverboy switch looking for my person :3

Hello there! :D

My name is Alex (not really but you can call me that for now) and I'm a 25 year old software engineer from Sweden (this part is real and true).

**Who am I?**

I would describe myself as a pretty chill and patient guy, but also sweet, empathetic and caring. I feel a lot, sometimes more than I'd like, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I'm generally pretty quiet in groups and sometimes struggle with holding conversations, but once I get going I can yap for quite a while c:

I'm no golden retriever, but maybe like a cute capybara? Idk I've often been compared to turtles because I tend do things slowly, so maybe that? Feel free to come up with your own animal interpretations! Also speaking of animals, I just recently adopted a cat!! Read to the end and you might get some cute pics!

What I am is a big nerd: gaming, movies and tv, D&D, reading, engineering and just science in general! I also like cooking, baking, playing piano, photography, working out and interior design!

I'm mostly introverted and a big routine guy. Once I find a way of life that I enjoy, I really don't have any strong need to change it up. I do like exploring and trying new things when the opportunity arises, but otherwise I'm generally pretty content as is. Basically if I like you, you can be sure that I'm not going anywhere :)

**What am I looking for?**

I'm looking for someone who wants to be a friend first and kinky second. Still lots of kink, but second regardless. Think like 70/30 ish. Actually, safety is above all but that should go without saying. I like consistent communication and preferably a mix of texting, voice notes and calls. I want a good mix of teasing, flirting, friendly conversation and full kinky play.

Ideally we would live close enough that we could eventually meet up in person and transition to a full relationship but I know that likely won't be realistic or possible and I'm okay with that. Also, if we end up being great friends but not quite a fit kink-wise, that's okay too!

It is really important to me that, outside of play, we're both equal, functioning and responsible adults. None of us are ever in charge any more than the other person allows at the moment. I'm not interested in being anyone's parent or baby. Power play, to me, is just that - play. I don't want it to have any part in the relationship as a whole.

**Kinks**

As the title says, I am a switch. If you're a swith too, awesome! This would be ideal, and I probably won't be truly satisfied in a serious relationship if this is not the case. I'm pretty 50/50 role-wise so I would prefer if you're pretty similar. It's okay if you lean one way or the other, I just don't want a situation where we stay in one role 90% of the time.

Regardless of roles, I enjoy a very soft but teasing kind of dynamic. One where we toy with eachother's brains more than anything else. For me, the process of falling into submission is the best part and any physical action is really just a cherry on top. I love praise more than anything, and any degrading or humiliating action should be accompanied by plenty of praise and compliments. I do not get off on verbal mocking or abuse aside from some very light exceptions. Other than that, I'll mention orgasm control, instructions, manhandling and pegging as some favourites.

**Who am I looking for?**

If you've made it this far and it all sounds good, I only have some broad final preferences:

- Sweden is in the GMT+1 time zone. The closer you are, the better!

- Be around 18-26 ish

- Be able to share some SFW picture(s) of yourself, both for attraction and safety purposes.

- Experience doesn't really matter to me, come as you are! I'm always happy to take it slow, teach and guide.

That's about it! If you got this far, please tell me your favourite fruit for extra points and cat pictures :D

Also, don't hesitate to reach out even if you don't see yourself as the perfect candidate! It's impossible to reduce this kind of thing down to just a few paragraphs and key points and I can guarantee your message will be seen since I frankly don't get very many :p

The most importand part is that we can just kinda vibe and have fun.

Thank you for reading and hope to hear from you!