STOP TOUCHING MY DICK

Why is it so hard to find a top who is utterly interested in my dick? I, a bottom, would like a top who does not want to play with my dick or suck it. Just wants to put his dick in my mouth and ass. I personally try to touch my dick as little as possible and try to get all orgasms anally ( although sometimes I do a quick handy too). I rarely lock for more than a week at a time ( no willpower lol).

Anyway, rant over.