Ok but genuinely how do you guys girlmode

Genuinely curious. I can’t imagine stepping outside and being seen by people in anything other than androgynous. I’m 5 years on hrt and honestly have no idea how clocky I am. I get mostly gendered correctly but I mostly thought that was people being nice. Anyway I just feel like if I went outside in full blown women’s clothing I would be in danger. Idk I just feel 100x safer with the idea of dressing in a way that doesn’t give me any attention. Also I feel like getting clocked knowing you tried girlmoding would feel a lot worse than getting clocked when I didn’t try. I’ve talked about this recently with my therapist who is cis. I dunno.