Dear Ms. Public Figure,

You’re upset at how I reacted to the way you approached the breakup. You gave me a vague reason for ending the relationship and then blocked me. We had a good relationship, and I genuinely thought we were mature enough to have an amicable breakup.

You say I lied to you. About what? I didn’t even get a chance to understand why you decided to end things.
It seemed like you did everything possible except talk to me about it. I was the only one who apparently wasn’t worth that conversation. There were posts on your Instagram, posts here, and who knows what on your other accounts since I’m blocked. I was left to assume and question myself. It’s only natural that I’d be upset.

I questioned the entire relationship. My mind ran through every possible scenario. I tried reaching out because I wanted closure, but you made it clear that you owed me nothing. Then you said I was accusing you of things I had done myself and that I was lying to blame you for the breakup. You said I was manipulating the narrative.

Please, I didn’t even know the narrative to begin with. I was trying to understand what the hell happened. The thing is, you couldn’t even tell me that directly either, you posted about it instead.

My conscience is clean. I was loyal. I treated you like a queen. I was never physically or verbally abusive. I wasn’t insecure in the relationship. I trusted you. I never questioned you or accused you of cheating.
I wasn’t the "crazy boyfriend" checking your phone, texts, calls, emails, or anything else without your knowledge. You did that. You asked for reassurance when you felt insecure, and I understood and provided it. You went through my phone without my consent, and I didn’t make an issue of it because I had nothing to hide. Even then, it never crossed my mind to search through your phone.

You accused me of being DL and cheating on you with a GUY?!? when there was no evidence and nothing that would have reasonably pointed to that. All you had to go with in that was gay men hitting on me “often”. You said it yourself, you were in your head a lot and that lead to insecurities but damn.

I was open with you about everything from the beginning. You’re the one who lied to me about your previous relationship. I caught you in that lie, and I’m not sure you would have come clean otherwise. It should have been a dealbreaker for me but I gave you the benefit of the doubt.

I’m done making excuses for you.

I am not the villain you have made me out to be. This situation did not happen because I asked questions or because I wanted answers. It happened because of the way you chose to handle the end of our relationship. Your lack of communication, your avoidance of accountability, and the way you chose to end things are what created this mess.

And don’t worry I would never talk badly about you to anyone. You can keep presenting the version of events that makes you look good and protects your image. Keep believing everyone buys it.

I don’t need to convince any one of who I am and couldn’t care less what your people think about me. They’re fake anyways, they don’t buy your lies but pretend to keep appearances. The people who know me know my character, and my conscience is clear.