42m high functioning autistic and adhd. Looking for female friends to chat with

Im 42m high functioning/aspbergers. If those still existed. Diagnosed by dr. And adhd. I have a successfull career. But. Its the only time i leave my house. I stay away from people and public places as much as is possible. When not at work. I do this as a choice. To limit stress and anxiety. I have friends. I chose to stop having a social life. But sometimes its nice to chat. Especially with someone my age who is diagnosed similarly. I prefer to chat with females. I have a male friend my age who is also autistic. And it just always felt weird hanging out. For some reason. Which im sure he felt the same way about me. I have grown children. Who moved out. I like computers. Turbo charged modified subsrus. Call of duty. Firearms. Im looking for female friends. Online friends. To chat with not just 1 time. But someone who can understand and relate to the daily struggles. Of this wonderful diagnosis.