Sexuality is so confusing:(

Happy pride month everyone! I recently just started questioning myself again and honestly it sucks!

I think I might be aro but now I’m realizing that I don’t know what romantic attraction is really. Like I wanna be cuddled and show affection but I want to do that with my friends and I absolutely despise kissing, what really dictates the difference between platonic relationships and romantic? Like sex is cool, never really felt the need for it but it’s nice to have, but kissing really gives me the ick and isn’t that the romantic part? The kissing?
Any advice is really appreciated and I know this is messy so:
TLDR; kissing is gross, I love cuddling, sex is meh. Am I aro?