46 [M4F] #Florida #Tampa - 6', Fit, and want to be your special secret.

We all know why we're here. How we got here is different for everyone, but I'm sure there are many common themes. For me, it all started when I was young and naive. Got into a bad relationship when I was in my teens and didn't know any better. Decades later, here I am still neglected, unwanted and taken advantage of, kids are all grown and adults now. I realize my situation is not sustainable, it will likely end and maybe not even that far in the future. I can honestly say I've done everything I can to make it work.

Before I tell you what I'm looking for, I want to show you what I'm bringing to the table. Here are the perks/benefits of choosing me as your AP:

• I'm genuine, open and honest. I'll give you the truth about my situation, past experiences and whatever else you want to know. No lies, no BS.
• I'm not a player, don't sleep around and will focus my energy on you and building something mutually enjoyable with you. You will have my attention, time and focus.
• I'm fit, supermodel okay no, but I take care of myself, I play an outdoor sport once a week, I go to the gym (sometimes counts), and I love to walk, job and bike. Eat clean and practice good self-care.
• Great hygiene, no worries about odors, being dirty or bad smells. My hands are well kept, nails trimmed, neatly kept body hair.
• Nicely hung, just right - not too big and not too small.
• Completely drug and disease free, there are no health risks with me, I'm not off having risky sex with people, have past test results I can show and would be happy to refresh before moving forward with anything physical. I get the full panel so can show that I'm also free of super common risk including HSV1/2.
• I'm intelligent, thoughtful, sensual and an erotic mind. I want to learn your mind, your body, figure out what you like and how you like it and optimize your pleasure.
• I'm open minded to what might happen - no pressure or drama - if it stays compartmentalized that's fine, but I'm also willing to catch feelings and open to explore them if mutual. We can also set boundaries on this if it worries you.
• Your privacy and safety is respected, I never want anyone to do something they don't want to when with me. Consent is sexy, mutual desire and arousal is sexy. I want "us" to be a safe space for you to explore and enjoy. If anyone knew you from your normal life and saw us together, I'd help downplay it and protect you (we should discuss in advance though to get on the same page).
• Travel - I go places, come with me when you can. Let's do fun things together, spend time together.
• Time - I'm often alone, WFH alone several days per week. I travel alone, work events, evenings where my partner and I aren't spending time together. Its easy to connect, chat, talk on audio/video and meet in person ideally.
• I prioritize your pleasure, not merely seek my own. Yes, I have needs, but I want to know what yours are, what do you need and want, let me satisfy those for you. I derive pleasure from your pleasure.

So what am I looking for? What preferences do I have? Whats the catch? Everyone has preferences, and while I don't have a "type" there are some bare minimum requirements I'm looking for and a few "best case scenarios" I can mention (I just don't want to dissuade someone who is unsure if they should message me simply because they aren't one of my "ideal scenarios").

Bare minimum requirements:

• Communication skills - you should be able to communicate, consistently, openly. One-word responses aren't going to cut it.
• Physically I prefer slim to average body types, but women are their own worst enemies when it comes to self-image, so unless you're definitely in that BBW category, reach out, lets test the waters.
• Please be a nonsmoker or at least not traditional cigarettes, I can't handle smokers' breath.
• DDF - this should go without saying, but please be drug and disease free, including HSV as I have to be concerned with someone else's health and wellbeing not just my own. Be honest, no judgement here but I can't risk it.
• Be female. Yes, I have to say this, because sorry guys, I'm straight and not interested in anyone else's cock, mine gives me enough trouble.

Here are some things that I think would be ideal, but not hard requirements, just giving you some examples of what I like. You do NOT have to be all of these.

• High Libido
• Open minded - few sexual boundaries or limits with a broad menu of what you like/enjoy.
• Into mutual oral - okay this one might be more of a need, since I really need my cock sucked, but don't worry, I'm dying to return the favor, you won't go without either.
• Active - come hiking with me, travel with me, bike rides, long walks, play games. I realize not everyone can do this for various physical/injury reasons.
• Local - please be in or near the Wesley Chapel area of Florida or come here often enough for work/travel to make it work.
• Be willing to meet in the middle, if we aren't super local, be flexible, work with me, lets meet in the middle, get creative on where to meet, how to spend time together.
• Dirty talk - I love when a woman talks uncensored, just be yourself, cuss and swear and talk like a sailor (I love it). Especially if you tell me what you want.
• Understanding - don't freak out if life happens, vacations, work, family obligations, sometimes that stuff happens and while I can usually reply instantly, sometimes I can't, so be willing to work around that.
• Kinky - it would be great if you're kinky or have things you want to explore and try. I'd love to hear about them and help you explore together.
• Toys - I love toys and enjoy focusing on a woman's pleasure, let me buy you toys, use them on you, watch you use them, so much fun could be had.
• Flirt and be playful - I'll pursue you, but I want you to do the same, we should be willing to pursue each other and find ways to make each other feel wanted, desired, sexy and maybe even loved.
• Confident - know what you've got and how to use it, communicate your desires and needs, show me what makes you special.
• Cum fetish?
• Exhibitionist?
• Know how to engage with a lover, chase and be chased, play, create intensity and arousal, desire, and anticipation (this is a two-way street).
• AP Exclusive - ideally, we're each other's only APs, for health and safety reasons.

Life is short, we've only got so much time. We shouldn't spend it being miserable, with unmet needs. Maybe like me, you're in a situation that you're not ready to end yet. But you still have needs that you're desperate to have fulfilled. Maybe you're selective, want someone safe and reliable, who will respect you and be concerned with your safety and privacy.

I want to build trust, want to get to know you, care for you, meet your needs.

I'm also a caring guy, so if you have some type of physical limitation or special needs thing going on, don't hesitate to reach out to, this could still work. I want whatever we build together to be meaningful to us both, to meet needs, fill gaps, and make us feel alive and excited again, or maybe in some cases for the first time feeling those ways.

Some of you will complain that this is too much information, too long of a pose, etc. Maybe some of you will appreciate the attention to detail. If any of this sounds like what you're looking for, please message me or comment below. I want to connect with you, safely vet each other and see if we might be a good fit. I'm not sleazy and desperate, I just want my one special friend for this type of dynamic.

Reach out, tell me about your favorite make out session, a fantasy you have and want to explore, or ask me some questions. Let's start the conversation and see what happens.