41 [M4F] Toronto - Looking for consistent connections
Hello π
I'm 41 and own my own condo in downtown Toronto. I'm 6ft, avg build, black hair, and brown eyes, and childfree. At the moment, I have a long-distance partner who, unfortunately, I don't get to see often because they're international. I'm also separated amicably and I keep in touch with my ex but the relationship is non-romantic and she takes care of the 2 cats we had during our time together. I have a gallery full of pictures of them as well like any responsible cat owner. Priorities. π± I also currently live alone, and my current pet is a snake plant.
Life is pretty simple for me at the moment as I live close to where I work and generally get around by walking, transit, or an Uber. I like keeping track of Hockey overall, but I'm also a Leafs fan. Along with that, I generally indulge in some gaming and music that ranges from a collection of 80's to more current metal. I'm also a big fan of food in this city and would be into exchanging ideas and hearing what spots you enjoy. My drinks of choice are generally beer, coffee, wine, or just a cold glass of water.
I've had a lot of experience being poly and have also been involved in kink as well. On that topic I also have a pretty good toy drawer π . Safety & Consent are very important to me as well. As for my flavor of polyamory, I do enjoy not having hierarchy and would prefer something closer to parallel polyamory otherwise. While I respect the idea, I'm not into Kitchen Table at all.
What I'm looking for
With all of that said, I'm looking for someone in the 29 - 50 age range who has some experience with kink as a submissive. While this isn't required, It is definitely a perk. Outside of that, if you're into gaming that's a huge plus as well. As above, I'm also looking for someone without kids, but any pets are welcome.
Relationship-wise, I'm very settled in my space and certainly looking for partnership but also fine keeping it casual as well. Also hoping that you've kept up with COVID & Flu shots as I have.
If that sounds interesting to you, slide into my DMs with a clear face picture and some info about yourself.
Posted Jun 7, 2026, 4:29 AM UTC