Is this an early sign?

Seeking Advice

I(28f) and my boyfriend(33m) have been dating about a year and a half. It start off amazing as it always does. We sexted all the time, couldn’t keep our hands off each other, had sex for hours and everything was perfect. We are semi long distance, I live 2 hours away but we see each other every weekend. I’d say about 8 months into our relationship we started having some issues. He came from a 7 year long marriage that was a dead bedroom the whole time and I came from a relationship that I was having sex at least twice a week. This change of relationship dynamics has been a learning curve for both of us as expected. We started having issues because I have a much higher sex drive than him, I can go multiple times a day where he is much of a one and done type of man. He prefers cuddling where I want to have sex. He gets upset when I bring up wanting to have sex more because he thinks once a weekend is good enough and that I’m being greedy. I feel my needs aren’t being met and I’m starting to get sexually frustrated. I am on edge because I just want to have sex more than once in a weekend. I make sure his needs are me

Posted Jun 7, 2026, 4:29 AM UTC

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