46 [M4F] #PA #Philly #NJ Normal married dad seeking normal married mom for fun weekday escapes

I'm hoping to find one great match who's relatively local, available during weekday work hours, and would like something with long-term potential. I'm 46m, white, married with one child, and looking for someone in the general Philly area (I live in the NW suburbs).

I'm in search of a much needed supplement to my life, which is pretty good overall, but severely lacking in one key area. I'm married and definitely looking to stay that way - but I am in need of much more sexually. I have a very attractive wife who is great to be with overall. Unfortunately, over the last few years, her libido has dropped to the point where we're grossly incompatible in the bedroom. After much consideration, I'm ready to find something special outside of my marriage.

After starting my search at the end of last year, I've had a couple of very brief affairs over the last few months that didn't quite have what was needed to last long-term (with distance and availability issues coming into play in both situations). Although I'm still fairly new to this world, having already had a few hotel dates has made me feel very confident that I do actually want ongoing extramarital physicality... 🤫

Outside of looking for an affair online, I'd say I'm a pretty normal guy overall... My interests include fairly standard things such as travelling, listening to music, doing outdoorsy stuff, etc. I like to stay active with things like hiking and sports when possible (though it's harder to do these days as a parent of a young child). I have a pretty good job in a STEM field. Appearance-wise, I'm attractive by most women's standards. I'm in pretty good shape - 5'11", 160lb and I've been told that I have a nice smile. Receeding hairline 🫤 but look young for my age. I'm somewhat introverted but confident. Smart, open-minded, and genuine. *Not* MAGA!

I'm looking for an attractive woman of a similar age (give or take a few years) and in a similar situation who also values extreme discretion. Extra points for being educated / intelligent and having a shared interest or two. Looking for fun without drama... And my availability would be 9-4ish, Mon-Fri. I have a very flexible job to easily make discreet meet-ups during work hours happen - but evenings & weekends are mostly a no-go for me.

Happy to share much more about myself if you'd like to chat! 😊