Im a little lost

I recently came to the conclusion that I might be somewhere in the aromantic spectrum. I don’t think I’ve ever really felt romantic attraction before. All of my “crushes” were people I made a conscious choice to want to like, because I thought I had to. I want romance, or at least the things that typically come with a romantic relationship despite the fact that I don’t think I’ve actually felt romantic attraction to anyone before. I don’t know if this is a common experience for aro people or not. Maybe I just haven’t found the right label for my identity, or a person I can truly feel romantic love for? Any thoughts or advice would be great. 💜