I've always wanted to date an Irish man

Possibly, most likely, going through a divorce with my husband of 8 years. Love of my life, or at least I thought. Well, he decided to use pictures of him and our dogs and our garden to try to flirt with other women, get sucked into a mobile game to the point of ignoring the fact he had to make dinner as I did graduate school classes for hours, and has become so emotionally unavailable he doesn't even know if he's in love with me anymore. And he talked to everyone about it but me. And no, he doesn't want couples counseling.

Well, I've been thinking about my future without him. I'm only 30. Going into a lucrative, in demand field. I have two bernese mountain dogs. I'm planning a trip to Ireland and Scotland within the next few years as I pick up the pieces of my life, and I'm really hoping to find a man who will continue to love me through the ups and downs, and won't just push me away. I've always wanted to date an Irish man and maybe this is my chance. Who knows.