Making friends

I kinda feel at a loss for options. I feel like no matter what situation i put myself in to put myself put there, i cant keep friends for long, or they are only my friends when in close proximity. Im always the one who has to reach out first too, i dont receive just small convo texts or ever get asked to hang. Is there something I can do to be making and keeping friends? I feel like right now im just no ones choice in a friend and like i just annoy people when i keep asking to hang or try to start conversation. This feels dumb to ask but im not sure how much more i can mentally take of this I feel lonely and at a loss