What do I do if I feel like I find it difficult to connect with guys my age?

I’m 17F and want a boyfriend but I’m kinda in little bit of a unique or abnormal situation compared to others my age and in a lot of ways feel more mature/have been through more than a lot of people my age. I feel like I have trouble connecting with guys my age somewhat. Also, I’m in a “recovery program” where I’m surrounded by people who are mostly much older. I’m not sure what do about feeling like this when it comes to dating and I would like to be able to feel like I connect with guys my age better