Wife went from a sex positive person to flat by 40.

My wife, 40f and myself, 37m are having a tough time after 8 years. She has hit perri menopause and has told me that most women don't want sex after age 40. I find that a bit difficult to believe...

She has gone on TrT and estrogen cream as well as addyi pill and cialis as needed, but that gets us maybe 2 organic times per week.

My sex drive is a bit higher. It doesn't have to happen every night but every other night on average seems reasonable. Her whole perspective seems to have changed from a sex positive person to a flat drive.

I feel like something isnt adding up. Selfishly it hurts to have a woman need pills creams and trt in order to want me...

I feel like I'm in for a life of no more affection or sex. It's sad and a bit lonely.