49 [M4F] #Fayetteville, NC Relocating and looking for a younger lady who needs and older guy

Hello! As stated, I’m 49M and relocating to Fayetteville, NC in a couple of weeks. FYI, I am not military, but I am military-adjacent. I am 5’10”, dark brown hair, tattooed, fairly decent looking (I think I’m objectively attractive but thats very subjective, isn’t it?), look much younger than my age but still have a little salt and pepper, and normally a consistent gym goer (I’ve been nomadic, living in hotels and eating bad food for a few months so the only workouts I’ve been getting consist of dragging my luggage from my car). I am also stupidly highly educated, professional, lived all over the world, and very experienced in all the ways that matter. As for personality, I’m down to earth, an avid reader, love horror movies, binging shows when I can, working out, also when I can, and going out and having fun times with a lady friend. I’m also a good conversationalist, respectful and discreet, protective and maybe jusssst a little bit possessive. I also have a bit of a goofy sense of humor with lots of dumb but endearing jokes so, if you like that, then that will help overcome the inevitable initial awkwardness.

I’d like to meet an attractive younger lady who needs an older man. Since I will be new to the area, I’d love to have someone who might like to hang out, show me around town, point out the good places to eat, drink, and hang out, as well as the places to avoid. Of course, you don’t have to be from the city proper but it would be nice if you are relatively nearby. Within a couple hours drive or so? As for looks, well, Im looking for an attractive girl (whatever that means). Also, you don’t have to be a fitness model or anything - I’m am certainly not perfect and I’m getting old but I do my best- but I do prefer a normal BMI. No offense to anyone intended.

Ideally this would lead to something more, something real. Nearly all my relationships over the past decade have been age gap relationships. I find them to be intense, intimate, and emotional, all very attractive and fulfilling. So hopefully I can find someone with whom I vibe. But, if not, at least we both met a new and interesting person, right? And if this piques your interest, let’s chat and see what comes of it. I’m also happy to exchange SFW pics if there is interest.

A word about the NSFW side of things. I will tell you now I’m a daddy dom type and pretty kinky but we don’t have to get into that now unless you want to. Happy to discuss or we can just explore and discover!

Ok sales pitch over. Many apologies for the long post. But if you made it this far, and want to message, please include the word “iguana” in your message to prove you read it. I hope to hear from you! Take care!