Addicted to female attention

my snap score is 1.5 million , I match a lot on tinder , yet all I want it seems like is to just keep snapping back n forth n yet I don’t get anywhere in the long run. Some of these chicks r major baddies and when I snap them it’s like damn cuz they be looking busty man and here I am in bed going to bed like a loser lmfao. which just makes me want them more , especially when they don’t reply. wouldn’t say I’m bad looking but I’m clearly doing something wrong. even as a kid growing up I used to look at my old fb messages and it’s so cringe. I used to message every single girl in my home town growing up. why am I like this? I don’t even know what the issue is even called so I can’t look into it , but yeah I’m sure there is a deeper meaning behind all of it. which if I seemed to cure it would make me like way more happier in life. cuz it just seems like I torture myself with it. seems like I don’t really know what I want. should I just try and hookup with them?