Need advice for hygiene while being bedridden.

I’ve had LS go undiagnosed for years. I have constant vulva, uretha, clit skin burning itching for years to the point I lost my clit and labia minora around 24. I also have pudeneal neuralgia and a constant tight painful pelvic floor and ovary, bladder, kidney and lower back pain due to IC and endometriosis. I’m mostly bedridden due to many conditions and fatigue. This is terrible but I don’t have energy to clean down there or help changing my underwear everyday. I’m honestly lucky if I remember my cream once a week even though the pain is mentally getting to me. I can maybe shower once a week. I get a lot of white discharge and constant pain too. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to better help myself or other meds I can try? I constantly feel dry and like I’m tearing all the way to my butt, but I also get discharge and burning when I urinate a lot and vulva swelling. I also think I’m also reacting to my toilet paper because I have eczema like rashes and the paper gets stuck. I don’t really use the clob just estrogen cream.