31F #UK - Alt girlie seeks male bestie πŸ‘‹πŸ–€

I know what you're thinking... "Didn't I see this woman looking for friends already?" Yes. Yes, you probably did πŸ˜­πŸ˜….

And yes, I said male bestie, but anyone is welcome to message me ! 🫑.

In my defence, making genuine long-term friends as an adult feels harder than it should be. Everyone seems busy, conversations fizzle out, and before you know it, you're back on Reddit wondering where all the people who actually enjoy talking have gone πŸ˜‚.

So here I am again...

I'm 31 from the UK, alternative πŸ–€, a little nerdy, and hoping to find some genuine friendships that actually last. Not the kind where we exchange a few messages, learn each other's favourite colour, and then never speak again. I'm talking about the kind of friendship where messaging becomes part of your routine, and talking to each other feels effortless πŸ–€.

I've met some awesome people already, but there's still room for one more friend who actually sticks around πŸ–€. If you've messaged me before and I somehow missed it, you're welcome to try again! It would be awesome if you game too, but no pressure.

When I'm not losing track of time on Fallout 76 or GTA V (PS5).. or any other games that take my fancy, I'm usually disappearing into random YouTube rabbit holes or thinking about getting more tattoos (i have one booked for next week, and I'm super hyped).Β I love voice notes and calls because they're usually the point where someone stops feeling like a username and starts feeling like an actual friend 😌. I'm also a big fan of banter, a little sarcasm, and generally being a menace to the people I like πŸ‘€πŸ˜….Β 

Ideally, I'd like people around 24-35, although a little older is absolutely fine. Similar timezones would also make life easier unless your sleep schedule is held together with duct tape and caffeine πŸ˜‚. I don't want to talk to anyone younger than 21 either, btw! Sorry.

So yeah! If you decide to message me, tell me your age, where you're from, a random fact about yourself, and your favourite colour so I know you've actually read the post 😊.

Posted Jun 8, 2026, 4:54 AM UTC

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