Contradicting spread

I’m a bit confused. I asked about the man I’ve been seeing intentions with me and got the fool, queen of cups reversed, and 2 of cups reversed. Then I did ask what he wants from me and that time I got the fool again, 8 of wands, and the hierophant. These both seem conflicting. It’s like he wants a relationship but also just is cool with going with the flow of how things are now