I clarify in ALL my posts that I require tribute to session, I clarify they understand that in the beginning of each conversation, 8/10 people don't even have 30$ in their account and still seek out findommes (Rant 👇)

I just wanna clarify I don't do FinDom solely for financial gain. I'm the type of mistress who loves the interaction and friendship I build with subs too. Been doing this for five years so I'm not a novice.

You don't need to respond to this how I need to not respond if they haven't tributed upfront, I've been doing this for years and a vibe check and kink check to make sure we are a good fit is something I want to do prior to entering a relationship. My issue is the amount of people who say that they will and can tribute, only to reveal after that they are in fact broke.

Last week I've had pretty much only time wasters, ghosts, scammers, and this is ONLY coming from reddit.

I don't understand how they can text people who write in caps lock that they don't do kink for free, that you are required to tribute to session, clarify in the beginning of the conversation you understand this, say yes mistress I understand, and at the same time know the whole time that you can't pay her.

I don't understand how someone can feel entitled to steal someone elses time like this solely because YOU feel horny and in need for attention.

I wonder do they ever consider that the findom on the other side of the conversation is also a living breathing human with feelings?

Do they consider how it feels to be scammed all day long from people who are just trying to squeeze some free attention out of you so they can jerk off to a conversation that are not consented to be jerked off to by both parties? Makes you feel used and like an object to me.

I just needed to rant.