Where are all the non-conventionally attractive single ladies?

Inspired by posts from r/astoria,

Everyone is looking for their 9s and 10s and whatever. No doubt us mid-looking folks have to find ourselves. Where are the average looking folk hanging? Especially in the 24+ range. Where do i find someone that has a nice personality, multiple hobbies, kinda funny, can hold a conversation, but isn't prime for the instagram baddie aesthetic? getting back in the dating game so pretty much trying to see where my people are at.