25F. Wanna know if I should breakup with my long distance bf.

We have been in a relationship for more than 2 years now. I live in city A and his home is also in city A. He visits my city once in 2 months and meets me as well. He works and lives in Delhi. (City A is not far from Delhi)

A lot of things happened from last year to the current time. Let me summarize.

1. Last year, August, his college friends planned a trip to Goa, and his friend's girlfriends were also going, but he did not ask me to accompany him. On the other hand, one of his friends who was in contact with me ASKED ME to join. I confronted my bf about this, and he kept making excuses like he was worried about my studies( I am preparing for competitive exams which were about to be held next year in may), etc. Also, he did a lot of things that hurt me. (Also, I have never gone with any of my friends or group to any trip, only traveled with my family and that also 2-3 years ago).

2. His bday is in February. To me, it was important that we spent either Valentine's or his bday together because that's what people do. I couldn't go to Delhi because I live with my family so it was pretty understandable that he would come to city A. But he refused and gave stupid reasons like he has financial issues and he would come in march during holia but on the other hand, he could spend on other stuff and even was planning to come to city A for a friend's brother's engagement for one day. We had a fight, and he came on his bday then.

3. In March, he came before Holi. Did not text me or come to my house or say anything regarding meeting me on Holi.

(Last year, I told him that I hadn't played Holi in about 8 years because of my parent's divorce, and he said next year he would come). We had a fight, and he apologised and accepted that he had forgotten. But that hurt me a lot.

4. In April, again, he planned a trip with his college friends and did not ask me citing my exam is next month and obviously I couldn't come. I know that completely, but the emotion behind this was not whether I could go or not, but the fact that whether I come to his mind or not, whether he wants me to include me. Even if he did not ask me, he could have mentioned, "It would be good if you could come." We had a fight, and his trip got canceled as well.

5. In April end, my exam was less than a month away, and I told him not to tell me about any outings or stuff of his because that would distract me in such a high-pressure situation. (It was my 2nd attempt, and my family pressured me). I told him about how it affected me calmly and asked him not to talk to me for a few days because if we talked, I would probably know his plans. I did not ask him not to go anywhere. I just told him not to tell me. He initially agreed not to talk to me and then messaged me the very next day and started talking and told that he would try to limit his trips. Then, in May, he told me that he's going to Vaishnodevi (one day before his trip) (because his brother got selected and he promised God that he would go to Vaishnodevi if he gets selected). I understood that because that was a good thing. Although I was a little disappointed because he told me when I asked him not to but I did not say anything to him.

I again asked him not to tell me anything further. Then he sent me a snap with the location filter - with the location "a village of Mussoorie"

I confronted him, and he told me he did not get the tickets and went to Nag Tibba Trek instead and did not tell me because i said so. I was highly disappointed and asked him not to talk to me until the exam.

Again, he texted me after coming back from his trip because he was anxious about his office work. I consoled him and did not say anything regarding the trip thing. After my exams, he rudely said that he could not tell me about his trip activities because i said not to(with a disappointed, irritated face). That made me really angry and hurt because he was so careless during that time and I did not even said anything to him, and still he is acting like this.