Provider lying about cancellation

So I saw a provider about a month ago. And with the help of this subreddit I reached out to her and had a very good first experience. Over the next month however my experience with this provider has been a merry go round of me paying for a second meeting, her enthusiastically scheduling said date, once agreed upon date arrives for one reason or another it’s cancelled on her end without any heads up(add context that she vented to me about family problems and chaotic lifestyle which hindsight 20/20 should have been a warning sign). Most recent time that this happened her reasoning for cancellation was that she was moving stuff out of her apartment all day, but her social media which is public showed her getting her nails done all day and going out. I made sure through all of this to not needlessly message her or haggle or negotiate, did I do something wrong on my end?

Also, will say that in between this I reached out to another provider who was a couple years older than this provider and there was a lot less mixed signals.