Can EMDR help me trust my husband again?
In a nutshell,
My husband is going to group therapy for porn addiction. He's been sober for 4yrs but he has told me that he has lied to me often.
I was more upset about him lying to me rather than the porn. I've always hated liars and he's lied since we've gotten together. So it's really messing with my head.
Who did I marry?
I experienced childhood sexual trauma and that's a whole other issue I'm going to therapy for.
The intimacy is dead,and the chemistry is dead from my side. I end up rejecting him often because he's not a safe space for me.
I don't want my marriage to get any worse. He's trying and putting in some work.
I just can't trust him though.
Can EMDR help me? How do i even go about this?
Posted Jun 8, 2026, 5:06 AM UTC · locked
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